Men often have extra-marital relationships for different reasons to women. With cheating husbands, it seems to be more about ego and the excitement of an illicit liason. With women, it's often due to neglect by their spouse as contrasted by the allure, attention and excitement offered by a lover. This would explain why when a woman is having an affair, she tends to have more of a "glow" about her!

How do you know if your husband is having an affair? Cheating husbands usually go to great lengths to lie about their activities and are careful about keeping their extra-marital affair a secret. Before you go accusing your spouse of cheating, you better have proof as the general attitude of a cheating husband is simply to deny the allegations.

Cheating husbands usually share similar profiles and so you should look for tell tale signs to help you determine if your partner is cheating on you. Do not confront the cheater until you have the proof you need, as this will only cause them to clean up their act and make it more difficult for you to catch them.

TELL-TALE SIGNS TO WOMEN TO LOOK FOR:

	Significant changes in your partner's grooming habits. Examples of this would be changing aftershaves, joining the gym, getting a new hairstyle, frequent bathing and buying new underwear.
	Your partner working back late in the office or suddenly having to be away on "work" trips more often. Of course, if your spouse's paychecks don't reflect all this extra work, then it might be time to monitor the situation to see if there is any pattern emerging (eg. keeping track of the mileage on the car, the time he leaves for work and the time when he comes home). You may discover, by accident, that he took time away from work but never mentioned it to you.
	Another sign is a drop off in the amount of money going into the bank. When a man is having an affair, it usually costs him money. You know what we mean - flowers, wining & dining, romantic gifts, dirty weekends away (on the pretext of work) - money he should be spending on you! Keep an eye on whether he is spending more money than usual by checking his bank statements and account balances, his check stubs, credit card bills and so on.
	Cell phones are a common way for cheaters to communicate with their lovers. Suspicious behaviour could include your partner buying a separate cell phone and setting up a separate phone account (that is billed to his office), without telling you. Even if your husband or partner doesn't have a separate cell phone, an itemised bill of calls made might prove illuminating (e.g. whether a certain number has been called frequently. Another tell-tale sign can be the deliberate deletion by him of all incoming phone calls from the caller ID!
	Home telephone calls, particularly incoming calls where he uses a low voice or hangs up quickly, may be a clue. Going out on the balcony to make or receive calls out of earshot may also raise your suspicions.
	Cheaters may have a change in sex life. That is, he stops having sex with you or he suddenly wants sex more often (see, it's not all bad!), as well as out-of-character sexual requests. Take the opportunity to check out those unexplained bruises on his neck or those scratches on his back while you're there!
	There will be a definite change in your spouse or partner's attitude to you and the home generally. With the children and activities around the house, he is likely to be less interested than usual. With you, he may stop confiding in you or seeking your opinion. Worse still, he may be prone to being more accusatory, irritable and easily moved to anger. He may tend to pick fights with you as an excuse for stomping out of the house! Any atypical, erratic behavior can be a sign that something's going on. At the beginning of an affair he may actually be more attentive than usual but as time goes on, this wears off and his tendency will be to find fault with you to try to justify the affair in his mind.
	Of course, there are the obvious tell-tale signs such as lipstick on his collar or the smell of an unfamiliar perfume on his body (or his clothes). The wedding ring in the back pocket of his trousers is usually a dead giveaway! What about those small, unexplained gift items? Who's thong is that? If he shows an uncharacteristic desire to be helpful with the laundry, check his underwear for secretion stains! While you're at it, check his wallet, pockets and the glove compartment of his car for condoms, unexplained receipts and pieces of paper with addresses or phone numbers on them.
	Certain activity on the computer/internet is often a big warning sign, particularly if he spends a lot of time on the computer after you have gone to bed! Email is also a common method of communication and cheaters will often delete all incoming e-mails and outgoing emails to avoid detection. He may even have set up a new e-mail account without telling you anything about it.
	If your Intuition or gut feeling is that something is not right, then this is often the best indication that your spouse or partner may be cheating on you. When in doubt - check them out!

The Internet has made it easy for people to be tempted. Virtually anyone can jump on the net, join a chat group and very quickly find someone to play with. There are thousands of online websites solely dedicated to married men and women who are LOOKING to have an affair! There is also a direct correlation between the Internet and the ever-increasing incidence of marriage breakdown.

For women who cheat, it tends to be the guilt that catches up with them. For women who discover that their husband or partner has been cheating on them, it can be devastating. They never really thought that infidelity could happen in their relationship. Finding out that your "significant other" has been cheating on you, via the Internet, email, chat software and webcamming can be a real shock. This "online infidelity" can often be going on right under your nose AND in your own home! If you suspect that this could be happening to you, don't get mad ......Get the evidence, then go from there.

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Just one final thing. It may sound odd but an extra-marital affair does not necessarily spell the end to a marriage. In quite a lot of cases, the parties examined why the affair occurred and made changes in their lives and are still together to this very day. So, even when you do get the evidence, you will then need to consider whether there is anything you could have done (or should have done) to ensure that your marriage came first! If you don't believe us, why not join our Help Club (see invitation below) and find out what other women have to say about it.....

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