These
days, separation and divorce seems to be all around
us. None of us ever set out on the path of marriage
with the expectation that we will later be confronted
with separation and divorce. We know that it happens
to lots of other couples but we never really think
that it will ever happen to us! So, when we ARE faced
with a marriage breakup, we're seldom ready for .....
coping with divorce .
Divorce
is about signs of an affair, marital separation, divorce
planning, dissolution of the marriage and resolving
issues ranging from domestic violence cases, property
disputes and financial settlements, alimony (spouse
maintenance), child custody law, access / visitation
rights, child support services right through to whether
you can possibly save the marriage. One way or the
other it usually involves confusion, loss, grief,
betrayal, anger, frustration, failure, depression,
trauma, fear and ultimately, acceptance (even where
a marriage reconciliation is possible).
Does
any of this sound familiar? Divorce
IS a very difficult and confusing time. Apart
from a lot of mixed emotions, we often simply do not
know where to begin. Often, there can be worring issues
such as how to tell if your husband is having an affair.
If you keep asking yourself "Is My husband cheating",
then you'll want to
read this…
Either
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Of
course, it may be that you're the one unhappy in the
relationship and have just had enough. Sometimes,
relationships just run their course. Maybe it is time
to tidy things up and move on with the next chapter
of your life!
If
separation and divorce ARE inevitable,
then there are a number of steps and stages involved,
but getting a handle on practical issues that may
affect you NOW is very important, as these
short-term decisions can have long-term consequences.
Let's
look at these initial steps: -
STEP
1:
Start by removing some of the confusion
that you're probably feeling right now. Many
husbands try intimidation (standover
tactics) as a way of making their spouse feel inferior
and vunerable. You can avoid this by getting a handle
on the practical issues involved, the options open
to you, your own reactions and what your legal rights
and entitlements are. Once you have done this, you'll
begin to feel a little bit better.
The
cheapest and best way to do this is to get yourself
a copy of the womens' divorce guide,
"How
To Win When Facing Divorce".
This is an instant downloadable ebook written by a
divorce attorney, Barry Roche, especially
for women. The author is also a consultant
expert and writer for Divorce and Women. This ebook
touches on the main legal issues associated with divorce
and also provides great practical tips on how to deal
with issues that you may very well be confronted with
right this minute. Another important aspect covered
in the ebook is how to avoid the emotional traps that
cause so many women to feel like victims when it comes
to marital breakup and divorce.
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STEP
2:
Read "How To Win When Facing
Divorce" and take any practical steps
that immediately apply to you.
STEP
3:
Locate a Family Divorce Attorney in your area.
Click on the "Divorce
Lawyer"
link here or in the menu in the top left-hand
column of this page and then check through to
see if there is a suitable divorce attorney
or law firm close to where you live. Whether
you are searching for a divorce lawyer in Texas,
California, New Jersey, Florida, Illinois, New
York, Canada, the United Kingdom or even Australia,
you'll find a link to someone who should be
able to help you. If not (remember, the world
is a big place), contact the Law Society in
your Capital City and ask for a list of divorce
lawyers in your location who specialize in separation
and divorce law.
***Before
contacting any of these law firms, do a search
on the Internet for Divorce Courts in your State
and have a good look around their website. Good
websites, such as the Family Law Court websites,
will often give a good idea as to the normal
procedure, court filing fees and relevant court
forms.
STEP
4: Decide if you
need some legal advice and/or representation.
This may
sound odd but there are lots of people who actually
represent themselves in divorce. In many cases,
a party may simply want to apply to dissolve
the marriage. In a lot of jurisdictions throughout
the Western world, this is often a relatively
simple process - particularly if it is a "No
Fault" jurisdiction or where the Application
is for an "Uncontested Divorce". Unnecessary
legal fees are something we can all do without!
Of course, separation and divorce is often accompanied
by other family law issues arising out of the
breakdown of the marriage. Issues as to child
custody and visiting rights, property disputes,
domestic violence and so on are all complicating
factors that often need some intervention by
the courts. Having proper legal representation
in these circumstances, can be crucial to the
outcome. Consequently, we strongly suggest that
you at least know what your legal rights
are and to ensure that your interests are
protected so far as possible.
STEP
5:
Contact the lawyer by phone first,
where possible. The
reason for this is that you may have some issues
that need to be addressed IMMEDIATELY or you
may at least need to know where you stand RIGHT
NOW on certain matters. Sometimes a quick call
to an experienced lawyer is enough to put your
mind at rest.
***When
it comes to legal advice and/or legal representation,
some lawyers will charge you based on a set
Court Scale of Fees while others will charge
much higher fees under their own Retainer Agreement.
Again, don't be afraid to ask.
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the
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Your
divorce lawyer will need these details as well.
This Form is FREE and will save your lawyer
some time (which means it will save in legal
fees). Make sure you print out the form, complete
the details as best you can and then take the
form with you when you do consult a divorce
attorney.
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out all the resources and divorce information
you can by visiting the links in the menu at
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DISCLAIMER:
- The legal information on this website is not
a substitute for legal advice. Each case depends
on its own merits and you should consult an
attorney for specific legal advice in relation
to your particular case.
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